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The lifestyle app built on trust
Shhh is the privacy-first platform for lifestyle-curious couples and singles. Proximity discovery, verified profiles, and safety tools including a panic flow.
Free to join · No credit card · 18+ only · Web, iOS, Android
What makes Shhh different
Proximity Grid
See who's nearby right now. Location-based discovery with privacy controls.
Verified & Safe
Verification tiers and trust tooling. Panic flow with SMS to emergency contacts when configured.
Privacy First
Blurred photos until you reveal. Encrypted connections in transit. No real names required.
Couples & Singles
Couple profiles, personas, intent flags. Find exactly what you're looking for.
Real-Time
WebSocket messaging, typing indicators, read receipts. Stories and whispers.
Events & Venues
Find lifestyle events, RSVP, check in. Venue dashboards for organizers.
Safety built in, not bolted on
🚨 Panic Button
One tap records a panic event and notifies emergency contacts via SMS when Twilio is configured; push may also be used for contacts on Shhh.
✅ Safety Check-ins
Record safety check-ins with optional next check-in times. Missed check-ins can trigger alerts to you (push) when the service is enabled.
📸 Screenshot awareness
On supported native builds, a chat screenshot can be reported to safety tooling; behavior varies by platform.
🔒 Photo Blur
Your photos start blurred. You choose when and who to reveal to. Full control, always.
New to the lifestyle? Read our beginner's guide or browse all guides.